I’m not supposed to do it, is it okay for Takashi?

I’m fine with it, but you’re not

That’s called moral harassment.

Example of a marital relationship

“I’m fine, but you (wife) are not”

I can say anything I want, but you are not allowed.

I can spend money freely, but you are not allowed.

Because it’s “my money.”

I can go out freely whenever I want, but you are not allowed.

I can shop freely, but beyond that I decide whether something is necessary.

So you shopping on your own without permission is not okay.

On days off, I rest peacefully, but you shouldn’t just laze around.

I see. I’ll be careful.