【Morning musing of a psychological counselor】A rambling talk about the currently popular SNS defamation and slander
A psychology counselor with qualifications as a mental health counselor and senior psychology counselor, who loves trading, thinking about SNS defamation
There is no such thing as being mentally strong or weak
It is not something that can be trained
People like Murata Wolf and Horie are said to have strong mentalities, but
It’s not about mental strength or weakness, but how you think and perceive
Even when the same words are hurled, your feelings change if you perceive them as a different being or a child
People who defame others, or anti-fans, think they are righteous
If you think you are righteous and the other person is evil
you end up thinking you can get away with anything terrible
You can do terrible things without batting an eye
Even when committing horrible acts, you don’t notice
Violence of hitting someone is a terrible act
However, there are probably few people who feel it is terrible when Anpanman hits Baikinman
Because Anpanman is justice and Baikinman is evil
“Words hurt people”
Words themselves do not have the property of hurting people
If words themselves had the property of hurting people
If you hurled the same words, all people would be hurt
However, in reality, some people are hurt and some are not
It becomes clear that words themselves do not have the property of hurting people
A person’s words → how you receive them → hurt or not hurt
It is not the words themselves that hurt, but how you interpret and receive them that causes hurt
Conflict arises only between those on the same level!!
Do not engage with people who attack others; do not lower your own level
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